Would you life to UNDERSTAND better the MIDLIFE CRISIS? Why does it happen?

I have a question for you, are you living the life that your soul is craving for or the life that you were conditioned to have? If you don’t know the answer, probably is because you don’t know the differences, and they are huge!

When you become an adult, you start to take decisions in your life and a lot of them are based on the social conditioning that you received when you were growing up, and you don’t realize the consequences they will have on the long run.

And usually choices made out of social conditioning don’t give you any kind of satisfaction or fulfillment, so after after a few years carrying the weight of these choices, you might reach the middle of your life feeling unhappy and ask yourself what have you done with your life. You might wonder as well if that’s how you want to live the second half of your life, which results in a midlife crisis!

The two most common areas that people struggle with when they reach this point in their lives, are career and relationship. And usually they already had children, what doesn’t make things easier because is much harder to make life changes when you have other beings depending on you.

If you find yourself in this kind of situation, just keep in mind that whatever choice you make, even the choice of staying where you are, you are still teaching by giving the example, as a role model to follow!

So if you are having a midlife crisis and you are afraid to make changes, just know that the time will pass and the older you get, the harder will be to leave your comfort zone and face uncertainties.

And with that comes the risk of living an empty life without knowing the joy and satisfaction that you could have if you would follow your soul’s desires!

How to Work with your Higher Self

When you want to dismantle your social conditioning and start to follow the guidance from your true self, the first step is to stop ignoring your problems because they will not go away!

Awareness is important and to recognize what needs to be changed is half way to sort it out anything. Have you ever heard an expression that you cannot defeat a demon if you don’t know the name? You cannot start to work on a problem while you don’t admit, at least for yourself, that you have one. So give it a name and start to face it!
The second step is to ask the right questions! You have no idea the power that the right questions have to open the doors to receive guidance from your higher consciousness, so ask and it’s given!

Next time, instead of asking for what you want in life, why don’t you try to ask what life wants from you? And pay attention to the answer! Probably it will show up straight away, but then you will come across people, conversations, books, internet that will provide you a piece of information that you need, and you will know because it will trigger something deep inside you!

The third step is to listen to your intuition that is in the core of your being and knows everything! Have you ever heard that all the answers that you need are inside you? You just need to learn how to listen!

The trick is to know the difference between the voices coming from your mind and from your intuition. Pay attention where the energy is, if it’s around your head, is your logical mind talking, if it’s in your heart centre, is your intuition.

Another way to figure out is to make a statement about something that you want, shift your inner focus to your heart and feel how it reacts. If it expands, the answer is positive, if it contracts, is negative.

Many people know what they need to do in their lives to get more aligned with their true selves, but unfortunately not many have the courage to take the fourth step, the leap of faith!

As the name says, you will need a lot of faith to take this step because the universe doesn’t work in a very linear way and your human mind loves to plan how things will happen, even though you must have realized already that plans hardly ever work.

If you want to learn how to work with the universe and with your soul, you have to drop the idea about how things will happen! Just set your intention about what you want and take the first step that is available to you. When you finish, the second will be available, then the third, fourth… One step at a time and your journey will unfold!

And be prepared to be amazed by life because when you follow your highest vibration, you always get more than you asked for! Have you ever heard that the journey is more important than the destination? When you learn to follow the energies, that starts to make a lot of sense!

When you follow your soul path, each step that you take, you break through your fears and your limiting beliefs, plus you develop new skills to make things happen. So for sure the journey is way more important than the destination!

Not many people are willing to follow this kind of journey, so if you are one of the brave souls that have courage to do that, be ready to hear a lot of criticism! Either people will admire you or they will think that you are crazy because they still operate in a linear way. Just close your ears and focus on your journey because you are the only person that will live with the consequences of your choices!